THIRSTY THURSDAY: “I’M ADDICTED TO YOUR HUSBAND”

Ok…before you get your pressure up, let’s remember we’re here to help not BEAT DAT AZZ harm! A BMS reader hit up our OMG CONFESSIONS File with a story that’s destined to piss off my single and married chics. Read her story and let’s try to help a sistah out… “I’m young, cute, single and I love married men! I wasn’t always this way. I used to date guys either my age or younger but after a bunch of bad break ups, cheating and lies, I found myself dating older men. Older men with wives and usually kids. Trust me, I know this is wrong. I was raised in a Baptist church and my mama would beat me if she knew but I just can’t help it. Married men are settled and treat me right. I don’t have to worry about him cheating because I’m the one he’s cheating with. This has been going on for a few years now and the more it happens, the more I hate myself. But I can’t stop. Please tell me what to do. –Loving your husband.” Ooooh lawd Loving Your Husband! Imma keep this real simple girlfriend. It’s obvious you have a conscious because if you didn’t, you wouldn’t be beating yourself up over this. It’s also quite obvious, you’re selfish. Selfish folks do selfish things like sexing another woman’s man. You need therapy quick, fast and in a damn hurry! You may have some underlying trust and intimacy issues that keep you in this disruptive cycle. Reach out to someone close to you that can tell you the truth and explore what’s making you feel you need to not only ruin other people’s lives but yours as well. Ok BMS peeps…let’s hear YOUR advice for Loving Your Husband!